Had an sms marathon with "my chosen one" ..at the end of the whole thing, we concluded on a few hard cold facts with regards to love and relationship.
1) The person you ultimately accept and be with may not be the one who treats you the best, but the one whom you love. ..well, love is irrational and a lot depends on chemistry.
2) The person you chose to be with could have done little to make you his..no tough courtship process or a lot of sacrifices…and poof, you’re together….hmm.. love is blind.
3) The other suitor who had done so much for you.. worse of all, the stuff he did are stuff which you are dam sure your partner might not do for you in the near future (cannot think too far ahead)
3) You are very very touched by what your dejected suitor had done but somehow you look up, look down, left and right… the chemistry and frequency is nowhere to be found…so sad huh.
4) You click with your partner at a different level which you totally are appreciative for but somehow wished he had some of the attributes of your dejected suitor… you just wished he would do for you… (hmm..but the probability of this mindset occurring is higher when there is the presence of the dejected suitor..Comparison can then take place)
5) The question of whether love can be slowly nurtured remains a mystery as more often then not, we choose love by our intuition or feelings rather than taking the risky route of trying to nurture love… (what if after 2 years you find that it can’t be worked out..then jialatz..waste your time and youth.. On the other hand, if you choose your partner by how you feel towards him, even if it doesn't turn out well, can count as...bu zai hu tian chang di jiu, zhi zai hu ceng jing yong you....)
....lots more to go if I were to continue typing... guess life is always unfair. No point spending time gruelling over why life is so unfair and you're the victim and so on.... the time could be better made use of. yeah..easy to say hor ..haha..
What matters most is you're HAPPY.... I.N.G!~
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I think there has got to be a balance la.
No point being with someone who treats you like a queen, but you just cannot feel the love and passion for tt person.
On the other hand, I wouldn't want to be with someone whom I love with all my heart, but he doesn't know how to treasure and treat me right.
Correct?
yup..it's totally true..but it's difficult to meet a person with that kind of balance..haha
hey! heard that u quit already??! where u going? i went back on zul's last day..but din see u ard..
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